There's no difference, in both cases it's just religious people throwing a temper tantrum.
I agree there is no difference.
But there's nothing in the Op about temper tantrums.
Adhering to your own conscientious objection isnt having a tantrum.
Whats that gay lobby argument?
...if you don't want same sex marriage then don't have oneWell if you don't want to shop at a filthy, racist, homophobic, Christofascist cake shop - then don't.
But as we have seen, the gay lobby seem to manage to stalk and find Christian businesses and by amazing coincidence, some gay couple turns up who want to buy their gay wedding cake from that business and no other.
Methinks that even if a city like San Francisco had 50 gay-friendly wedding cake shops, and only one owned by conscientious objector Christians, gay activists would be lining up wanting to buy their cakes from you-know-who.
How comes it that a Christian video store or bookshop owner can legally refuse to sell gay porn but a Christian baker can't say, oh I'm sorry we don't sell THAT product?