Let me clarify what I mean by social engineering versus the individual. I have met some social justice warriors that are very politically correct. They say racism is wrong and point out every instance of racism. That's fine but some of these same social justice warriors, raised in upper middle class suburbs don't have any black friends and have never been to a black neighborhood. And so you have to question their sincerity.
Likewise, I have met conservatives who I believe are racists yet they give me, a Mexican American, the time of day. Some are friendlier, more polite, more attentive than some of the social justice warriors that seem cold, distant, and self righteous.
In both examples, there is a disconnect between the social justice warrior and the conservative. When it comes to the social justice warrior, it is a preference for society over the individual. When it comes to the conservative, it is a perference for the individual over society. I argue you need a harmony between both and that both are essential.
Actually what got me thinking this way is oddly enough a Three Dog Night song: Easy to be Hard.
The lyrics go as following:
How can people be so heartless
How can people be so cruel
Easy to be hard
Easy to be cold
How can people have no feelings
How can they ignore their friends
Easy to be proud
Easy to say no
Especially people who care about strangers
Who care about evil and social injustice
Do you only care about the bleeding crowd
How about a needy friend
I need a friend